Instructions for the Energetic Session with Phyllis being there energetically in the 4th dimension.
How it works
There are two fundamental dimensions available to us humans: 3rd and 4th dimension. The 3rd dimension is the realm of the physical-it incorporates the entire physical world in which we live. The 4th dimension incorporates the realm of the "meta"physical (meaning "beyond" the physical). The 4th dimension is the realm of energy and consciousness that underlies the entire 3rd dimensional world that we experience everyday of our lives.
Phyllis' work is 4th dimensional. It is energetic and works on a person's consciousness first, with the results then manifesting into physical form, where specific and concrete improvements can be witnessed. Often people sense a lightening up of their being at a deep level within, prior to noticing concrete results in the physical. Because the work is so deep, many wonderful changes can be made in a person's life that more 3rd dimensional healing technologies cannot reach.
Because of this, Phyllis is able to be with a person energetically, in 4th dimension, without having to be present physically. A fundamental understanding and trust in the basic nature of life is necessary here. If you are unable to grasp this concept or feel skeptical about it, then this session isn't for you. People who have worked with Phyllis over time and have gotten to know her work, have reported some very profound experiences with this type of session. This session will support you in being more responsible for your own personal growth process than the other sessions (where you call in to request the work), and the skills you develop during this session are extremely valuable for your learning and growth.
The procedure (in Phyllis' words)
Be available for your session at your scheduled time, although you won't be calling me on the phone. I will still be there energetically, in fourth dimension (rather than physically, in third dimension). I will still be connected with you and provide the healing and support you require. My energetic presence will help your intuition be stronger. It will give you greater confidence and a greater ability to see what's going on within you and to trust your own knowledge and awareness. You may even feel my consciousness present with you and "see yourself through my eyes" as you follow the instructions below. [Call the office (512) 301-2999 to book time for this session.]
What to do during your session
Take about 15 to 20 minutes (more if you need) and write down what is going on with you. Kind of take an assessment. Write down areas of challenges in your life or things you'd like to have changed. You can also take an assessment of what's happening in your body and energy field. You may want to sit with eyes closed and scan your body. Notice any areas of tension, stress, heaviness, torque... anything unusual that doesn't feel right. All these things will be addressed in the session. You don't necessarily have to write down all that you find, but it will be valuable for you to take note of what's going on inside you and your energy field in this way. Take as much time as you need... there's no rush. Just be with yourself as deeply as you can, and tell the truth as much as you can about what you're experiencing. All of this will support you in getting maximum healing and clearing.
- I'm willing to get the help I need in making the changes I want to make in my life.
- I'm willing to get all the negative programming cleared and whatever other healing I need as a result of this session.
- I give thanks for all the healing and clearing I am about to receive.
Creating your affirmations
You may also want to start letting go of needing to be right about any negative thoughts you have about what's going on in your life. Take the most negative beliefs that you're bringing to the session today and create affirmations:
Then you want to create a new identity, by affirming:
- I let go of needing to be right that.... (and then you put your negative belief in there.)
- I let go of needing to be right that life has to be hard.
- I let go of needing to be right that I can't get my needs met here.
You are not affirming your negative belief here, you are saying, I let go of needing to be right that my negative belief is true. It's very powerful to do so. Then breathe it in at the tailbone area, the base chakra, where we tend to hold onto our negative beliefs in order to survive (because they are comfortable and familiar). With your eyes closed, you say the affirmation from the tailbone area, and then take a deep breath in, pulling that new energy into the entire body. Do this at least several times… and then perhaps several times every few days.
- I know who I am when... (then put your positive belief in here-the opposite of the negative one)
And again, say this from the tailbone area (where our old identities are stored, so we feel safe and comfortable staying where we have been...) and take a deep breath in, pulling the new energy into the whole body.
- I know who I am when life is easy and joyful for me.
- I know who I am when I can easily get my needs met here.
These affirmations are very powerful and really help to facilitate change at the deepest levels. As long as we want to be right about what we believe, we'll never change and always feel stuck.
Letting go of needing to be right about what we believe is an incredibly powerful act… and needs to be practiced!!
Then, creating a new identity from scratch is essential, so we don't go back to our old comfortable ways of being and identifying with our old negative programs.
You can also create any other affirmations that you want to counteract the negative beliefs or programs that may have surfaced in your mind at this time.
Take some time and work with all the affirmations you create. Breathe them into different chakras and areas of the body. Feel the positive energy coming into you, and be aware of the resistance it may bring up as you do this. If the resistance is really strong, you may want to take a few minutes and feel the negative feelings being stirred up-as we often do during sessions. Just keep allowing yourself to go deeper and deeper into the negative feelings, for the purpose of making peace with and integrating the energy, so they are no longer walled off or stuck inside you. Go deeper and deeper into them, and my guides and I will be there to help you clear blocking and sabotaging energies as we normally do, to allow you to keep going deeper within. Trust that you can do this. It will work well for you.
This whole process will be very empowering for you, so please do honor your session time as a way to look at yourself and be with yourself, for the purpose of allowing a deeper level of healing to take place.
Other Things You Can Do
It's okay to be creative as part of your session, and work in whatever way you feel comfortable. One client had major issues with her mother, so I suggested working through the exercises in Love Now, Here's How, in Ch.6, p. 245, "Healing the Relationship with Your Parents." If you have major issues with your parents, you could do this exercise prior to or during your session, and get a tremendous amount of clearing as a result.
There is another process that you could include in this session. This is very helpful to gain insight into what's going on with you, and will bring up a lot of programming that can be cleared in the context of the session.
Answer to the best of your ability the following questions. Accept whatever answer comes up in your head. This is not necessarily a "logical" process, more like an intuitive process, where you just trust whatever comes up for you.
First, pick a problem or undesirable condition you want to work on, then answer the following:
- What are my payoffs to having this condition?
(In other words, what are you getting from having this condition? Remember, payoffs are not necessarily positive. For example, if your "condition" is being sick a lot, your payoff might be: "to get people to pay attention to me" or "to get people to feel sorry for me." If your "condition" is not having enough money, a payoff could be: "to get to feel bad about myself" or "to get to feel like a failure." Just do your best to tell the truth and see what comes up. This will tell you why some part of you is "creating" or holding on to the condition.)
- What thoughts must I have that have created (or attracted) this condition?
(Again, just say whatever comes to you. Whatever comes up in your mind at this time is no accident. Trust the process. Since your thoughts always create your reality, this part will help you get in touch with the negative thoughts within your subconscious that need to be transformed.)
- What feelings does this condition bring up?
(In truth, both your thoughts and feelings create your reality. Most feelings stem from old programming, often from past life experiences. We tend to re-play similar feelings over and over, until they are fully felt and integrated or cleared. Getting in touch with and feeling your feelings are important for the healing process.)
- What are your fears of letting go of this condition?
(Yes, sometimes we hold onto "negative" conditions because we are afraid to be free of them. We are afraid of the changes that might happen in our life. We may feel undeserving of such change. We may feel safer staying where we are. There are many possible reasons why we may be afraid to let go of the condition. Telling the truth about this can be very insightful. The idea here is that you want to take responsibility for whatever is going on in your life. If you haven't yet let go of some condition, there are often specific underlying fears.)
This is something else you can do, as part of the Energetic Session. This is an exercise where you fill in the blanks with whatever comes into your head. There is no right or wrong way to do this. This exercise is very healing on many levels. I would definitely recommend you incorporate this exercise into every Energetic Session, at the conclusion of the session.
Repeat each phrase and fill in the blank. After you are done, do another few rounds of this, as you get more insight and clearing each time you do it. Also, it really feels good. And in time, the things that you pray for will become the things that you are grateful for!!
I acknowledge myself for ..........................
I forgive myself for .......................
I am grateful for .....................
I pray for ........................
"I really enjoyed the session and definitely felt things happening energetically. It was like being in a bubble.... in an altered state of consciousness. The session just flowed and evolved on its own... pretty cool! My dog was totally relaxed next to me while I was doing my session. Was powerful (hard to put into words)."
O.K. Pasadena, CA. Lifestyle Educator
"Thank you so much for the energetic session last night! I just wanted to share with you that I felt like I was traveling into the spaces between myself to access the clearing energy you were sending. I am so grateful for this new awareness, this new way of "seeing" into myself, and for the lasting effects of the session. I feel really great and at peace. On goes the journey..."
J.L., New York City, NY, Theatre Administrator
"I wanted to say thanks so much for the session yesterday! I definitely felt your presence energetically--it was truly a very cool experience! I like this method much better than just writing my issues and sending them over. I really gained a lot of insight during the session! I felt many affirmations coming my way, some that I would not have thought of on my own... which was so interesting! Afterwards, I felt lighter, very tingly all over..."
B.A., New York City, Artist/Designer
"Just had to write and let you know how powerful the energetic session was last night. The energy and support I felt were undeniable. I don't know if everyone feels your work as much as I do, but WOW! Thank you for having found your way to this work. I am extremely grateful."
K.C., Columbus,Ohio, Marketing Consultant and Author
"Just wanted to say thanks as I got a LOT of clarity that I needed with this session."
K.S., Dallas, Texas, Recruiter
"I just wanted to thank you for your time and healing energy you sent my way Oct 18, 2007. I was in an altered state after the session. I still feel the effects, I know I am changing for the positive! Thanks so much! Powerful stuff!!"
J. E., Malibu, CA, Registered Nurse/Artist